I grew up imprisoned by low self-esteem; I hated myself so much I often felt suicidal. By nature, I am anxious, introverted and critical (especially toward myself). On top of these tendencies, I spent years living in a broken home with a mentally ill mom and a great deal of trauma and insecurity.

But because a sense of self-worth is such a strong human need, I kept desperately trying to find confidence. First, I excelled in school and became a straight-A student who never got into trouble. Everyone praised me for being a “good girl”—but on the inside, I knew it wasn’t really true.

In my teens, I found some relief by using drugs. When I was high, I felt like a different person— outgoing and confident—but when the drugs wore off, I returned to my old self, frustrated that nothing had changed.

Having a pleasant appearance and several boyfriends provided a sense of security, but no lasting impact on the way I perceived myself. And since I always encountered someone prettier, smarter and more talented than me, how could I ever be satisfied?

Eventually, I dropped out of college and out of life, becoming an anti-social recluse who hoped that interacting with people as little as possible would somehow fix the problem and give me inner peace. But this approach only made things worse.

Then, when I was 22—once again considering suicide as my only viable option—something wonderful happened: a Christian invited me to church, and I started reading the Bible.

The Bible is amazing! It taught me that I don’t have to be a victim of my circumstances anymore, that God can heal me and help me change the things I don’t like about myself, even change the wrong ways I think and feel. It showed me I could have a second chance, a do-over in life. Most importantly, I learned that the only way to find your true value and self-esteem is through developing a relationship with God and following his Word.

Today, I’m known as a positive person who is outwardly focused, excited about life and always joyful. God’s Word has transformed me—not just on the outside, but all the way through, deep down to the inner core of my hidden thoughts and attitudes. I’ve become someone I truly like and respect.

If you’re wrestling with low self-esteem today, turn to God’s Word for hope and confidence. Here are some Bible verses to get you started:

1. Matthew 11:28 (CEV)
   If you are tired from carrying heavy burdens, come to me and I will give you rest.
2. Psalm 62:5-6 (CEV)
   Only God gives inward peace, and I depend on him. God alone is the mighty rock that keeps me safe, and he is the fortress where I feel secure.
3. 2 Corinthians 5:17 (CEV)
   Anyone who belongs to Christ is a new person. The past is forgotten, and everything is new.
4. Matthew 19:26 (GNTD)
   Jesus looked straight at them and answered, “This is impossible for human beings, but for God everything is possible.”